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The BDSM checklist that works like it should.

Rate what you're into, mark your hard limits, and see where you and your partner match. It takes about ten minutes on your phone — and you can print a clean PDF at the end. No account needed.

1 · Pick a list

2 · Pick your side

Every question is worded for your role. A switch? Fill the list in once for each side.

3 · Your name (optional)

Pick your side first.

How it works

  1. Rate each activity from 1 star (dislike) to 5 (love it), mark what you've tried and what's a hard limit.
  2. Send your partner an invite link — they fill in the same list from their side.
  3. See what you match on. In safe mode, only mutual interests are revealed — your limits and “no”s stay private.
For adults. Play safe, sane and consensual — a checklist is a conversation starter, not a contract.