About BDSMChecklist

BDSMChecklist is a modern BDSM checklist: a structured way to figure out — and talk about — what you're into, what you're curious about, and where your limits are.

Rate each activity from 1 to 5 stars, mark what you've tried, and flag your hard limits. Every item is worded for your side of the dynamic. Share one link with your partner and see where you match — with safe reveal, neither of you ever learns the other's limits or “no”s, only your mutual yeses.

No account needed. Your checklist lives at a private link that only you have; treat it like a password. Nothing you fill in is ever shown to anyone unless you share it.

A note on safety

A checklist is a conversation starter, not a contract. Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn at any time — a 5-star rating today is not a commitment tomorrow. Some listed activities carry real physical or emotional risk; the descriptions flag these, but do your own research before trying anything new.

By the maker of bdsmtest.org. This site is for adults (18+).